Fear controls the perfectionist - Hyvejohtajuus.fi
Perfectionist aims at the best, but will tend to increase only in self-satisfaction. While looking for other people's praise perfectionist controls fear. Lapland hiking teach where to find drugs: the road to true and lasting happiness is humility and magnanimity through.
In the autumn of Lapland calling. Last week I was hiking in the Kevo Nature Reserve. As in previous years, the Lapland experience was awesome: long walking trips, rain, sore feet, dry rations and bad instant coffee.
Value of Lapland, the world seems to turn upside salaattiohje down. Please note that we can succeed for so little, that a return to everyday life seems to be full of turhamaisuuksia. As soon as there is a flood conflicting ideas. They came for the hike. Then I kept a nice helsinkiläiselämää too easy. Helsinki, while I like the wilderness spirit of foolishness.
The drive from Helsinki Kevo is long. The club was good, so the distance went by surprisingly fast. Still, there was a lot of time to think about things. Memory at some point in your e-mail message that was received by Alexandre Havard. End of message greeting salaattiohje was: "The salaattiohje best is always better!"
The phrase was already put to think about, but only now I started to think about it more deeply mileage accumulates. I was concerned mainly the question of "what is the best?" The question was an echo of the constantly during trek.
Lapland tried the full details of the trek, such as the Trangia washing up, food preparation salaattiohje and packing salaattiohje a backpack, you might want to take. I noticed I did not manage my surroundings perfectly: salaattiohje everything is always just gone according to plan. At the same time I noticed how strongly a perfectionist, I rebelled.
I would venture to say that perfectionism is a disease, or at least the attitude problem. Perfectionism is a major challenge salaattiohje for happiness. Perfectionist is rarely satisfied with his own or other work, as it can always be made better.
The perfectionist is highly result-oriented salaattiohje human being: he is more interested in the outcome than the process. For this reason, a perfectionist does not live in the present moment to the fullest. He is impatient because he wants to see the best results. He does not enjoy doing the work, he did not enjoy the process, but he will be satisfied only when you see a good result.
Perfectionists are for every occasion. Basically, all Perfectionists lookout for the best, excellence. But I would say that most are seeking perhaps unconsciously, an increase in property instead of self-righteousness: more than satisfied with the good result they want to be happy with themselves.
This is due to the fact that perfectionism is often associated with the need to get applause from others. Perfectionism, a person may own excellence - to unconsciously it out for yourself - seek other's approval and appreciation.
As a result, a perfectionist to keep doing the work of other people's opinions and reactions constantly in mind, because he is afraid of the other criticisms. In other words, the fear rather than the pursuit of an asset may ultimately be perfectionist perfectionist.
Perfectionists often is lacking authenticity, as to him, other people's opinions constitute salaattiohje the criterion of excellence. salaattiohje The authenticity of the lack of dependence on the opinions of others are often perfectionist to escape from the responsibility for decision-making at the time.
Perfectionist seeking as much background information, he analyzed the situation so deeply that he can not claim that he could not decide or do differently: anyone else in her situation would have done the same. He was not, therefore, be criticized.
After returning to Helsinki, I read again Havard e-mail. The amount of conflicting ideas were born during the trek. I found Havard was right: the best is indeed better. The best keyword Havard means most appropriate for each moment. How do we find the most suitable in every situation? It helps, salaattiohje especially the virtue of wisdom.
Perfectionists magnanimity and humility are particularly important: the genuine pursuit of excellence salaattiohje created magnanimity. Humility, in turn, is the ultimate salaattiohje truth. Humility helps us to accept vulnerability. It is the first step in genuine salaattiohje life.
Created by Santi Martínez was born in Barcelona and moved to Helsinki at age 17. He is a Master of Political Science and an MBA from the University of Helsinki. Today, he works as a trainer in leadership and a treasurer.
Thank you for Santi. Nature does not provide. Nature is growing. salaattiohje That's why nature can teach people in many ways. If a human life is only carried out, it will go to the dogs. Perfectionism attitude problem? Perhaps you would prefer in the background is a kind of basic human attitude, I have fallen ill with the strength of I'm OK, you're not ok. This perusaseteeseen is built in two different types of "internal hiostajaa": 1 not strong 2 do not show your feelings. If this is the case, then surely it is difficult to receive any critical salaattiohje / corrective feedback. Täll
Perfectionist aims at the best, but will tend to increase only in self-satisfaction. While looking for other people's praise perfectionist controls fear. Lapland hiking teach where to find drugs: the road to true and lasting happiness is humility and magnanimity through.
In the autumn of Lapland calling. Last week I was hiking in the Kevo Nature Reserve. As in previous years, the Lapland experience was awesome: long walking trips, rain, sore feet, dry rations and bad instant coffee.
Value of Lapland, the world seems to turn upside salaattiohje down. Please note that we can succeed for so little, that a return to everyday life seems to be full of turhamaisuuksia. As soon as there is a flood conflicting ideas. They came for the hike. Then I kept a nice helsinkiläiselämää too easy. Helsinki, while I like the wilderness spirit of foolishness.
The drive from Helsinki Kevo is long. The club was good, so the distance went by surprisingly fast. Still, there was a lot of time to think about things. Memory at some point in your e-mail message that was received by Alexandre Havard. End of message greeting salaattiohje was: "The salaattiohje best is always better!"
The phrase was already put to think about, but only now I started to think about it more deeply mileage accumulates. I was concerned mainly the question of "what is the best?" The question was an echo of the constantly during trek.
Lapland tried the full details of the trek, such as the Trangia washing up, food preparation salaattiohje and packing salaattiohje a backpack, you might want to take. I noticed I did not manage my surroundings perfectly: salaattiohje everything is always just gone according to plan. At the same time I noticed how strongly a perfectionist, I rebelled.
I would venture to say that perfectionism is a disease, or at least the attitude problem. Perfectionism is a major challenge salaattiohje for happiness. Perfectionist is rarely satisfied with his own or other work, as it can always be made better.
The perfectionist is highly result-oriented salaattiohje human being: he is more interested in the outcome than the process. For this reason, a perfectionist does not live in the present moment to the fullest. He is impatient because he wants to see the best results. He does not enjoy doing the work, he did not enjoy the process, but he will be satisfied only when you see a good result.
Perfectionists are for every occasion. Basically, all Perfectionists lookout for the best, excellence. But I would say that most are seeking perhaps unconsciously, an increase in property instead of self-righteousness: more than satisfied with the good result they want to be happy with themselves.
This is due to the fact that perfectionism is often associated with the need to get applause from others. Perfectionism, a person may own excellence - to unconsciously it out for yourself - seek other's approval and appreciation.
As a result, a perfectionist to keep doing the work of other people's opinions and reactions constantly in mind, because he is afraid of the other criticisms. In other words, the fear rather than the pursuit of an asset may ultimately be perfectionist perfectionist.
Perfectionists often is lacking authenticity, as to him, other people's opinions constitute salaattiohje the criterion of excellence. salaattiohje The authenticity of the lack of dependence on the opinions of others are often perfectionist to escape from the responsibility for decision-making at the time.
Perfectionist seeking as much background information, he analyzed the situation so deeply that he can not claim that he could not decide or do differently: anyone else in her situation would have done the same. He was not, therefore, be criticized.
After returning to Helsinki, I read again Havard e-mail. The amount of conflicting ideas were born during the trek. I found Havard was right: the best is indeed better. The best keyword Havard means most appropriate for each moment. How do we find the most suitable in every situation? It helps, salaattiohje especially the virtue of wisdom.
Perfectionists magnanimity and humility are particularly important: the genuine pursuit of excellence salaattiohje created magnanimity. Humility, in turn, is the ultimate salaattiohje truth. Humility helps us to accept vulnerability. It is the first step in genuine salaattiohje life.
Created by Santi Martínez was born in Barcelona and moved to Helsinki at age 17. He is a Master of Political Science and an MBA from the University of Helsinki. Today, he works as a trainer in leadership and a treasurer.
Thank you for Santi. Nature does not provide. Nature is growing. salaattiohje That's why nature can teach people in many ways. If a human life is only carried out, it will go to the dogs. Perfectionism attitude problem? Perhaps you would prefer in the background is a kind of basic human attitude, I have fallen ill with the strength of I'm OK, you're not ok. This perusaseteeseen is built in two different types of "internal hiostajaa": 1 not strong 2 do not show your feelings. If this is the case, then surely it is difficult to receive any critical salaattiohje / corrective feedback. Täll
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